Tuesday, January 27, 2015

Does anyone have an answer?

I Our town is having some issues with sharing. Sharing our beloved open spaces. Sharing among ourselves and others. What am I talking about? Dogs, of course!!!! 

As of the first of the year one of the favored open space trail systems in Cape Elizabeth had a rule change about off leash dogs. no longer allowed after 9 AM. There were too many bad incidents, dog bites, poop everywhere, dog fights, the land trust who owns the land unanimously voted the new rule.

I saw it coming!!! This is land I knew well. I have lived in this area for close to 30 years, 20 of them in the town. Worked for the family who owned that land for 15 years. I rode my horse with my dog on that land for years. In fact, I have been riding my horses in private lands all over Cape Elizabeth and South Portland for 25 years. I once kept my horse at Mr. Fickett's on Highland Avenue. I did some of the carriage rides with Carl Flink, who had Standardbreds he rescued and used for weddings and parties. 

I knew nearly all the landowners whose land I rode on. I remember asking permission from Sonny Young one time and his reaction was disturbing.......he was initially shocked at the question because no one had ever asked before. He said people just trespassed and even rode their bikes over his front lawn giving him the finger as they went. He apologized that his son would be downing trees over the trails to try to make it more difficult, but that I was welcome to come and go around the trees if I could. 

In my quest for riding trails I got to know my neighbors. I ended up with permission to ride on trails that took me for miles all over. My dog was awesome, taught to heel on my right so she would be on the inside of the horse and not in the traffic lane. A horse is supposed to travel with traffic. I knew parts of this town that very few people knew. Pretty much every inch of land that was passable by horse with landowner's permission. 

One farmer told me I could go anywhere, just do NOT step over the irrigation pipes because some horse (without permission) has punctured a hole in a pipe. Another told me any time except when the tree farm was open for sales. Too many people and kids to mix with horses during that time. another said only on the lower road. Not sure why, but I guess I behaved appropriately because seven years later she said I could ride anywhere as she liked to see the horses.

another said anywhere, but stay on her property because she and the other family members were fighting. I learned a lot those years riding my horse with my dog all over this town. What I learned was that people were very frinndly and welcoming if they knew who you were. and what a rich and varied town it is!!!! I met people from all walks of life!!!! and explored some amazing lands, in a town of reasonably small size!!! 

So, now many of those lands have been sold or given to the town or a land trust. And are now public. Such so that word got out about these lands and the people flocked. In great numbers and from all over. Dog walkers rejoiced, as they should, these lands are awesome places for dogs!!!! But........you know the BUT here..........they didn't pick up the poo, it would be left in baggies, or just left, the dogs were not monitored and allowed to behave in ways MY parents would never allow a dog to behave. they came from neighboring towns in great numbers!!!! Dog walker websites listed theses spots as common areas they took dogs. YAY!!! What great places to take your dogs!'! People got bit, jumped on, dog got into fights, it became bad enough that during the school field trips and nature outings, kids would have to navigate poo and fend off jumping dogs. The rules changed and fast!!! Crap!!! (Yeah, pun intended!!!)

I actually stopped going to one place because it had become so bad. MY dogs were no longer happy walking among so many other dogs and I would get irritated at all the left poo. My horse got Lyme, so we were not riding long distances any more, but I am not sure I would enjoy it much anyway, navigating all the dogs on the trails. 

So now the dog walkers unite. We, and I am right there with them wanting to help, are trying to unite. But, it is hard. what is the answer? How can this be resolved? One thought is a limit on dog per person. No more group dog walks with multiple dogs for one person to attend to. I think that seems reasonable? I walk with groups, but I usually only have my two dogs to watch or just one. My friends have their dogs, too, so we end up with a pack of dogs. But, yes, no more than three per person. Is that really the answer???? People with one dog might not pick up the poop. Or let their dog be unruly or aggressive. We met such a person yesterday. Her aggressive dog tried to pick a fight and was off leash. I was livid!! I have run into her before. her dog should be leashed or muzzled or not there at all!!!!!

Are the group walks so bad? When I head out with my friends we are constantly worrying about where our dogs poop, who we encounter, how our dogs behave, and we leash our dogs when we encounter others with leashed dogs or no dogs. We do not let our dogs run up to people and jump on them. My dogs don't run up to other dogs. They don't even like being social with unfamiliar dogs, they just want to pass by without trouble. We are responsible with our pack of dogs. We want our off leash privileges to continue, forever!!!!

I honestly don't know the answer. Folks in towns with dogs per person limits say it works well. How is it enforced anyway?? 

I simply do not know the answer to this issue, but here we are losing our precious open spaces. And it makes me sad. I feel such longing for the "old" days and I don't think I am that old.......thoughts are deceiving!!!!

Saturday, January 10, 2015

I think we are getting somewhere!!

I actually haven't practiced this trick too much, but lately with the bitter cold we have been in I started practicing it more. And, well, he's getting it!!!! Now I just need to figure out how to convince him he can do this prone and not lying on his side. Which is adorable, but lying prone would probably be even cuter. He really is too cute for words!!!

Progress learning "shy".............


Thursday, January 8, 2015

Trying to teach "shy"

The goal is to grab his nose with his paws and keep them there. Silvia suggested doing it with him lying down first so his paws are both free. Well, it is slow going, but we are gaining. I get stuck sometimes with tricks. We never did get penguin going very well. He just doesn't understand he needs to STAY in sit up position.

This "shy" has progressed lately with both paws. He SO wants to do his karate chop, so that is hard to get rid of, but we are getting somewhere. Just not practicing much, so maybe if I start practicing more we will progress faster.


Sunday, January 4, 2015

Well, the holidays are over

And on we go to 2015!!! I can't say 2014 was the friendliest year. Losing Colby was the biggest bummer, but there were other loses. Yes, there were some gains, too. We bought a condo at Sugarloaf, so that makes my winter fun a little brighter!!! No more staying home and feeling sorry for myself. Huh, except TODAY!!! I am home because Sugarloaf was rented and so I signed up for a trial. Great trial, done early, cheap, my favorite trials. Hmmm.....never made it. Checked the highway live cams, didn't look too bad. Turning to rain fast, roads treated, cars moving along.

Scraped the car, packed up the dogs and headed out. Roads were 45 MPG, but driving was  fine. Well treated with salt and sand and moving along well enough, no problem. Until my windshield iced up and kept getting worse and worse. I had to stop and turn around. I had to scrape the big chunks of ice piling up before managing back on the road to head home and have a MAJOR pity party. DAMN IT!!! I spoke with my friend last night who was at another trial in the same area and she said I should come stay with her for the night. That just seemed silly, the weather said it would be in the 50's later in the day and I shouldn't have too much trouble driving. Well, right now it is still 24. That's too cold and that's why my windshield iced. Waaaaaaaaaaaa...................

So, I'm stuck home AGAIN! And pissed! And bored. Spur and I will work on some tricks, but it isn't the same as a couple runs in agility. We really were looking forward to that today. I don't know when  we will get to do that again, I really do hate winter sometimes. I am not moving to Florida, I hate heat, but I hate this shit. Ice, ......ice.....ice is just no fun.

Well, so here are some recent training videos. Up until now my yard was totally usable and we were training regularly. Hiking was pretty good, too. Now we have ICE. Ugh......



Spur's 2o2o is coming along nicely. Still not feeling totally confident I can train it or that it is an "easy" thing to train compared to a running contact, but he sure loves training it.


Wednesday, December 17, 2014

One of the MOST fun nights out, EVER!!!!!

Muse Paint Bar Pet Night!!!!! So cool!!!!!
Just getting started.......


This was totally the most awesome fun!'!! Wish I had taken more photos!!! There was a mom and daughter doing the same kitty and it was SO cute!!!! 



Thursday, December 11, 2014

TMI?

Too Much Info????

I don't care, this is MY blog.............so..........here goes............I hate this age. I am 52 and definitely going through "the change". It may be why I can't find the time to post here like I did and because I feel like a grumpy complainer all the time. Waaaaaaaa..................just waaaaaaaaaaaa....................I end up feeling sorry for myself most of the day because I can't get comfortable...........first I sweat, then I'm cold, then I look at my wrinkles in the mirror, then I sweat again!!!! Argh!!!!!

I can't sleep. I run out of energy quickly. Bitch, bitch, bitch, it is a CRUEL joke! This should be an age when you are settled into yourself, comfortable with your life and choices and friends. No, it is a time when you just want to regroup, rejuvenate and change your curtains! Hahahahaha, yep, I decided to just throw away our old curtains. They were the cheapest we could find at the time that had ANY style to them, but now they are just faded and outdated and OLD. Crazy, but I found a valance that looks fine and was only $10. How about that???? Cheap change!!!

I wish my body's change was so easy and cheap, LOL!!! No, it appears that I am in for a LONG haul. Since, well, this has been going on now for over a year already. It is TIME to stop this crap and get it over with!!! Change already body!!! Just get 'er done!!!! When I discuss this with my doctor or my friends or read up on the internet, well..........everything/one says "more exercise". Hah, like I don't get enough walking dogs all day doing about 10 miles? Nope, I don't. My body adjusts to what it feels is "normal", so my job walking dogs all day is MY body's normal, so I need MORE exercise. Really???? OK, so I was doing the strength class twice/week and could start that up again. Because, damn it, I DO need that class. My legs might be in good shape, but walking dogs does nothing for abs or arms. Sigh...........

I tried Black Cohosh herbal remedy for "women's hormonal balance". Not working, yet!!!! >:/

Then the next article I read said I don't want to "change" too quickly because once my estrogen is gone, well, there goes my plump skin and youthful appearance. GREAT. Like my skin is SO plump and youthful now?????? Bwaaaaaaaaa............OK, so I still have SOME brown hair and there might be a spot of skin that doesn't have sun damage, but that might be the back of my neck that never SEES the sun. Or my ass. My ass is plump and doesn't have sun damage. Sorry, but no one is going to see my plump and "youthful" ass. Hahahahaha, maybe a skin transplant. Take my ass skin and move it to my face. Yeah, that's a GOOD idea!!!!

OK, so now you have TOO MUCH INFORMATION!!!!! How about I switch gears and go back to dogs. Been teaching Spur a 2o2o. Why? Just to see if I can. I have never taught that to a dog and, well, I won't ask him to do it on the dog walk, but I am curious if I can even teach a fast 2o2o on planks. Here is our latest...........


Saturday, December 6, 2014

Gotcha day!!!!

Well, looks like my photos added from my computer. Woohooo!!!! Today is Spur's "Gotcha" day! 7 years ago today we brought him home. Damn he was a cute puppy! He was 5 1/2 months, lived in a cage up until that day. Amazing how well he has done! Especially having to live with Rotten Roscoe...........huh, could RR's mouth get any bigger?

 He was such a cute little boy............
 And SO happy!!!!
 And turned into a very handsome little boy..........
 But, this was his beginning.............
 And then he was FREEEEEEEEEEEEEE................
 SO freakin' cute I could NOT let anyone else have him. I just HAD to have him.
I knew what I was getting. I knew he had worries. I knew his structure wasn't great. I knew he had no neck. I knew his front legs were crooked. I knew he was nervous. What I didn't know is how much I would adore him. Hahahahahaaaaaaaaaaa...............and did any of you believe that??? LOL!!!! I knew the minute I saw him and cleaned his crappy little cage at the kennel how much I would adore him. He is very special. He has taught me SO much. He is an amazing little dog. And I am not sure I have ever had such a friendly little dog. He absolutely loves everyone!!! Well, except for kids. Not a fan of kids, but he sure thinks all adults are super cool and his friend. He barks, gets nervous sometimes when meeting new people, but all because he just gets too excited. He is super friendly and just a pleasure to live with. I love his furry little self!!!!! Hard to believe it has been SEVEN years!!!! Wow!!!